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“Parenting Strategies !
6 Simple Strategies that Will Aid Your Home Business !”

by Dave Hertner
Copyright 2002
All Rights Reserved

Let’s face it. The biggest problem that we all share in being home based business people is working at home. Specifically, working in an environment where you are unsure of the availability of uninterrupted work time.

I was in the very same situation when I decided to start my own information marketing business. I had the drive to succeed, the great idea and the support of my wonderful wife. The problem I ran into though, was my inability to secure the uninterrupted time I needed to concentrate on the business. Does this sound familiar?

I am going to save you a great deal of grief by letting you in on the 6 strategies that my wife and I developed to allow me the time I needed for the business.

The first strategy is by far the most important. It is the bedtime ritual. You have to get the kids to bed at the same time, day in and day out! What we did was probably the hardest thing for any parent to do. We put the kids to bed, closed the door and went down stairs. If you go back in they win!

This WILL be hard on you for the couple of nights that it takes to implement but once you are through it you’re home free! You are the one who controls when they have to go to bed. You therefor, have control over how much time you make for yourself.

The second strategy revolves around playtime. We all know that your kids require a certain amount of your undivided attention to simply play with them. Children are creatures of habit as well. Marry this into the establishment of a defined playtime. Pick a block of time and make yourself available. They are happy that they have exclusive time with you and you are able to schedule with confidence.

The third strategy is to take an evening per week off. You will need this time to be with your spouse. I picked Wednesday night as our night out. We have a babysitter that comes over at 6:30pm each week. She gets paid very well and as a result she is never late. My wife and I will go shopping, go for coffee or whatever suits our fancy but most of all we spend time talking to each other. This is very important! You need this time to avoid the resentment that can build when your home based business becomes more of a going concern.

The fourth strategy is to eat your meals with your family. There isn’t a single good reason why you cannot eat with your family. It is critical that you are there to hear what is going on with your children and your spouse. Your business will mean nothing to you when you run into the problems that result from inattention paid to your family.

The fifth strategy is a simple way to get your kids started into the bedtime routine. My wife and I found that if we had the kids watching a video just prior to their bedtime we could use the end of the video as a tool. At the end of the video are the credits. Whenever they came across the screen we would say “There are the words. It’s time for bed.” The kids then started to equate the credits with bedtime and the credits became to blame for their misfortune in having to go to bed. Not their parents! This has proved to be a great tool.

The last strategy I’ll share with you today has to do with the philosophy of parenting. I have noted in many families of friends where the parent tries to be the child’s best friend. I personally feel that you have to be a parent to your child first and a friend second. Children thrive on structure and routine and they need to be constantly reminded of the
family hierarchy.

These are the strategies that have led to the success of my information marketing business. I hope that they help you to be successful as well.

To Your Wealth!

Dave Hertner

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Stranger SafetyKid safety is an important, yet often difficult topic of discussion between parents and children. The Safe Side’s “Safe Side Super-Chick” is a decidedly zany host who successfully combines slapstick humor with serious, practical safety tips for kids. “Safe Side Super-Chick” breaks the population down into three quickly discernable categories: “Safe Side Adults” that kids know well and can always trust to keep them safe, “Don’t Knows” like the mail carrier or the lady at the park and “Sorta Knows” like a coach or a schoolmate’s parent. As “Safe Side Super-Chick” interacts with “Don’t Knows” and “Sorta Knows”, she offers seven specific safety tips to keep kids safe and, with the help of real kids, details simple, concrete actions and phrases that empower kids in a variety of potentially dangerous situations. Best of all, the presentation is never scary, but always extremely funny–that means that kids ages 2 to 10 will actually enjoy learning about safety. Kudos to Julie Clark (creator of Baby Einstein) and John Walsh (host of America’s Most Wanted) for creating a safety video that’s highly entertaining, informative, and practical. –Tami Horiuchi

Director: Douglas Aarniokoski
DVD:Color,DVD-Video,NTSC
Company:The Safe Side(2005-05-24)
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Your Baby Can Read 1VHS Tape:Color,NTSC
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Diaper Dude Diaper Bag for Hip Dads (and Moms!)As seen on “The View”, US Weekly, In Style Magazine, Parenting Magazine, TV’s Extra!, and in many more fine publications. Say goodbye to flowery diaper bags. Now there’s Diaper Dude! Diaper Dude is not your average diaper bag. It was designed with dad in mind. A cool, hip, funky diaper bag that comes complete with changing pad, cell phone holder and key ring for dads on the go. Diaper dude is compartmentalized and has enough space to hold those essentials needed for a day out with dad. Three large front pockets are designed for wipes, food, bibs, utensils and more. The main compartment contains a special place for diapers, changing pad and is big enough to hold a change of clothes, toys and extras. A bottle holder is at arms reach, so dad can access milk or juice at a moments notice. But most of all, Diaper Dude is form fitting to the body, comfortable, hip and affordable. And moms love wearing it too! Bag measures approx. 16″wide and 14″tall and 4.5″ deep.

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Do your children see you as happy and peaceful, or do they see you as angry, depressed, or overburdened? Learn how important it is to good parenting for you to learn to take emotional responsibility for your own feelings.
When you were growing up, did you ever wish that your parents were happy? Did you feel safe when they were happy and peaceful?

My mother was rarely a happy person. Most of the time she was anxious, angry and felt overburdened, even though I was her only child. She rarely laughed and was often upset with me, or my father. Clearly, she made both of us responsible for her happiness and we consistently fell short.

I would have given anything to have had a happy mother ? a mother who knew how to take responsibility for her own happiness and pain. I would have loved to have had a mother who showed me how to take loving care of myself instead showing me how to be an unhappy martyr.

Often, in my counseling work with parents, I ask them if their parents were happy. Most of the time they say no. I ask them if they wanted their parents to be happy and invariably they say, ?Yes, I would have loved it.? Yet these same parents are not taking responsibility for making themselves happy now. They are acting just like their parents ? anxious, angry, depressed, withdrawn, resistant, or compliant. They are controlling with each other or with their children in the same ways their parents were controlling.

?As parents,? I say to them, ?it is your responsibility to learn how to make yourselves happy so you can be role models for your children. How can your children learn how to take emotional responsibility if you don?t? Right now, you are role modeling being a victim of your circumstances instead of being an emotionally responsible adult. You are using your anger, upsets and unhappiness to control your children, or you are putting yourself aside to take care of everyone but yourself. How can they learn to take care of themselves if you are not taking care of yourselves?

Many parents take care of externals: they keep the house clean, they are on time, they pay their bills, and they earn money. Some parents even take care of their physical health by eating well and getting enough exercise. But many parents fail to take care of their emotional wellbeing.

Taking care of your emotional wellbeing means that you recognize that you cause your own feelings with your thoughts and actions. When you think and behave in ways that are unloving to yourself or others ? that are not in your highest good - you will be unhappy. When you think and behave in ways that are loving to yourself and others ? that are in your highest good - you will be happy. Your positive or negative emotions are completely the result of your own thoughts and actions.

If you operate from the belief that how your children act, or how your partner acts, or how your external life is, causes your feelings, then you are operating as a victim. As a victim, your happiness is dependent upon others doing what you want them to do and on getting the outcomes you want. If this is your belief system, then you are teaching your children to be victims.

Taking emotional responsibility means staying tuned into your own feelings and immediately shifting your thought process and actions when you are feeling negative feelings. It means that you learn to access a spiritual source of inner guidance to help you know how to take loving care of yourself. You need to learn to turn to your spiritual guidance to help you think the thoughts and take the actions that are true and in harmony with your soul, rather than operating from the false beliefs that cause you pain.

Do not kid yourself into thinking that as long as you are there for your children you are being good parents. You also need to learn to be there for yourself so that you can be a happy and peaceful parent.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Margaret Paul, Ph.d. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including “Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?” and ?Healing Your Aloneness.? She is the co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding? healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now! Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com or email her at margaret@innerbonding.com. Phone sessions available.

The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate Unhappiness in marriage often has a simple root cause: we speak different love languages, believes Dr. Gary Chapman. While working as a marriage counselor for more than 30 years, he identified five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. In a friendly, often humorous style, he unpacks each one. Some husbands or wives may crave focused attention; another needs regular praise. Gifts are highly important to one spouse, while another sees fixing a leaky faucet, ironing a shirt, or cooking a meal as filling their “love tank.” Some partners might find physical touch makes them feel valued: holding hands, giving back rubs, and sexual contact. Chapman illustrates each love language with real-life examples from his counseling practice.

How do you discover your spouses and your own love language? Chapmans short questionnaires are one of several ways to find out. Throughout the book, he also includes application questions that can be answered more extensively in the beautifully detailed companion leather journal (an exclusive Amazon.com set). Each section of the journal corresponds with a chapter from the book, offering opportunities for deeper reflection on your marriage.

Although some readers may find choosing to love a spouse that they no longer even like hoping the feelings of affection will follow later a difficult concept to swallow, Chapman promises that the results will be worth the effort. “Love is a choice,” says Chapman. “And either partner can start the process today.” –Cindy Crosby. This text refers to the Amazon.com Exclusive Journal & Paperback Book Set.

Author:Gary Chapman
Paperback:204 pages
Company:Northfield Publishing(1995-06-01)
ISBN:1881273156
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O Yikes Designer Messenger Diaper BagFashion meets function with the O Yikes Diaper Bags. They are not just diaper bags, but lifestyle bags designed to keep up with life changes, from carrying baby supplies (toys and diapers) to carrying Mom and Dad supplies (laptops and notebooks). The double layered construction, easy to clean durable nylon exterior and water-resistant micro fiber interior is perfect for the active, urban parent. The comfortable padded strap makes it easy to keep your hands free to either cuddle your newborn or chase your rambunctious toddler. Stylish and practical, these bags are made to keep you up to date while keeping up with your ever changing life, so you can easily keep baby’s or even your gear organized while still looking hip.

The bags are available as a Slingback or as a Messenger. The Slingback has an ergonomic across-the-chest design to save your shoulders and allows your hands to be free. The Messenger is carried over the shoulder with a strong non-slip strap (the messenger can also be used across-the-chest style). Each bag includes a bottle holder, a changing pad, a toiletries bag, and wipe case. Available in four fun color combinations. You can also chose to order this bag as part of a gift basket which includes the bag (and accessories) plus baby sun block, diaper ointment, a single use camera, baby powder, a newborn onesie, a nail clipper, hand sanitizer, forehead thermometer, diaper rash cream, and an oral syringe (see additional images for details).

Make no mistake, these bags are of the highest quality material. The exterior is made of ballistic nylon specifically chosen because it has a more attractive weave and therefore a higher sheen. The ballistic nylon is much more durable and has a more finished look than other nylon material. The interior is micro fiber chosen due to its high durability and water resistant properties. The zippers are high-quality brushed aluminum and double headed for quick access and great looks!

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Can you picture this: It’s 6:30 P.M. and you had a long, difficult and trying day at work. On the way home you are dreaming to just eat something, watch the news, and go to sleep. You get home and your pre-teen or young teenager greats you and begins to talk and talk and talk. Sounds familiar? Wouldn’t you like to know a better way to come home so you will be able to unwind from a hard day?

Firstly, let’s understand what is going on in THEIR minds. No, they are NOT out to get you and make your life a misery. On the contrary, they have most probably been thinking about you (at least on the subconscious level) since they have come home from school, if not before, and all they really want is some attention from someone whom they really love.

I know from experience that this is surely “easier said than done so here are a few pieces of advice that I have learnt along the way (I’m the father of 12 children and have had many long, difficult, and trying days at work.).

*Firstly, realize that they are not trying “to get you” but it is a “show of love” that they want to be close to you.

*Before you get home imagine how you would feel if you would come through the door and there would be no one there to greet you at all or if your children wouldn’t take any notice of you. It isn’t such a good feeling, right?

* Keep some crackers or other snack in the glove compartment or briefcase and before you walk through the door take a bite. You can’t imagine the difference between coming home hungry and coming home not hungry.

*Try to make all phone calls BEFORE you come in the house. You gain two things like this. (1) You can give your children the uninterrupted attention that they desire. (2) You will be calmer after making those stressful phone calls.

*When you come in the house GO OVER TO THEM and ask you how they are and how was their day in school. They will get the feeling of being wanted much quicker like this.

Try this and you will see that if you give them as little as five or ten minutes of attention they will feel good and they will then happily allow you to unwind and relax just like you deserve.

To watch a compelling, powerful, and unforgettable video clip of what children really want from parents; Click here Parenting tip about what your REALLY child wants.

Shevach Pepper is the happy father of 12 children. To learn more about him; visit Shevach’s biography .

What to Expect When You’re Expecting: 4th EditionAnnouncing a brand new, cover-to-cover revision of America’s pregnancy bible. What to Expect When You’re Expecting is a perennial New York Times bestseller and one of USA Today’s 25 most influential books of the past 25 years. It’s read by more than 90% of pregnant women who read a pregnancy book–the most iconic, must-have book for parents-to-be, with over 14.5 million copies in print.

Now comes the Fourth Edition, a new book for a new generation of expectant moms–featuring a new look, a fresh perspective, and a friendlier-than-ever voice. It’s filled with the most up-to-date information reflecting not only what’s new in pregnancy, but what’s relevant to pregnant women. Heidi Murkoff has rewritten every section of the book, answering dozens of new questions and including loads of new asked-for material, such as a detailed week-by-week fetal development section in each of the monthly chapters, an expanded chapter on pre-conception, and a brand new one on carrying multiples. More comprehensive, reassuring, and empathetic than ever, the Fourth Edition incorporates the most recent developments in obstetrics and addresses the most current lifestyle trends (from tattooing and belly piercing to Botox and aromatherapy). There’s more than ever on pregnancy matters practical (including an expanded section on workplace concerns), physical (with more symptoms, more solutions), emotional (more advice on riding the mood roller coaster), nutritional (from low-carb to vegan, from junk fooddependent to caffeine-addicted), and sexual (what’s hot and what’s not in pregnant lovemaking), as well as much more support for that very important partner in parenting, the dad-to-be.

Overflowing with tips, helpful hints, and humor (a pregnant woman’s best friend), this new edition is more accessible and easier to use than ever before. It’s everything parents-to-be have come to expect from What to Expect. only better.

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Amazon.com Exclusive
An Essay from Heidi Murkoff
What to Expect started with information–or, actually, lack of information. In fact, when I found out I was expecting for the first time–I didn’t have the slightest idea of what to expect. And back then, it wasn’t as easy to find out what to expect as you’d think. I created What to Expect When You’re Expecting because I couldn’t find the answers to my questions or the reassurance for my worries that I was searching for in the pregnancy books I read (and believe me, I read plenty). I was a mom on a mission–a mission to help other moms and dads worry less and enjoy their pregnancies (and their babies, and their toddlers) more. And I’ve been on that mission ever since.

So what sent me back to recreate What to Expect–for a fourth time? Today, there’s definitely no lack of information on pregnancy. In fact there’s more information than ever before (a quick online search of pregnancy or a glance at pages and pages of pregnancy and parenting options right here on Amazon will clue you in on that). But often what’s still hard to find is the right kind of information. Information that’s accurate yet empathetic, reassuring yet realistic–that empowers you, but doesn’t overwhelm or confuse you, that guides you but doesn’t dictate to you. And it’s not just about the right information, it’s about information that’s presented in the way that’s most helpful–easy to access, easy to digest, easy to use. It’s about information that makes your pregnant life less stressful–more enjoyable, and, well, easier.

The fourth edition is a new What To Expect for a new generation of readers–you!–and I’m excited to say it’s the best What To Expect yet. It’s packed with all new information, of course (since things tend to change quickly in the baby-making and baby-delivering business–something you’re probably all too aware of already if you’ve made more than one trip to the birthing room). But it doesn’t only take into account what’s new in obstetrics and what’s new in pregnancy; it takes into account what’s relevant to pregnant women now. Lifestyle. Working. Eating on the run. Juggling the pregnant life with real life. Keeping up with relationships. Birthing options that are family friendly and pregnancy care that incorporates the best that complimentary and alternative medicine has to offer. Managing multiples (which more and more moms are carrying). Sorting out the information from the misinformation–the reality from the hype, fact from Internet legend.

The fourth edition also takes into account how you likely use books these days, so the format is even more accessible than ever. More geared to in-the-moment, find-it-in-a-flash reading.

Most important of all, the fourth edition celebrates pregnancy. I have a passion for pregnancy, and always have. I love moms, I love dads, and I love babies. But everything about this fourth edition from the happy, excited mom-to-be on the cover, proudly caressing her beautiful belly and its even more beautiful contents, to the adorable week-by-week description of the making of your baby, to the positive (yet realistic), mom-to-mom tone throughout–this fourth edition is not just an explanation of those 9 amazing (though often bewildering) months you have ahead of you. It’s a celebration of them.

What to Expect When You’re Expecting fourth edition is everything moms and dads have come to expect from What to Expect. only better. And I can’t wait to start sharing it with you.

I guess you can say–I’m a proud mama all over again.

–Heidi Murkoff

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What to Expect: Eating Well When You’re Expecting

What to Expect the First Year

The What to Expect Pregnancy Journal & Organizer

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Author:Heidi Murkoff,Sharon Mazel
Paperback:616 pages
Company:Workman Publishing Company(2008-04-10)
ISBN:0761148574
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DudeBitz - inspiring and entertaining messages on your computer screen. Girl’s version “ChickBitz” also available.This product is an innovative software program that loads simply onto a computer hard drive. Each time the computer is started or re-booted, a new “Bitz” of information appears.PC System Requirements: Microsoft Windows 2000, XP, and 98; CD-ROM Drive; 30 MB of free hard drive space; internet access necessary for optional features

CD-ROM:CD-ROMDUDEBITZ is an extraordinary new computer program. It was developed to reach boys ages 15-25 with information on building their character, insuring their safety, protecting their health, and most importantly, having fun.,Simply load the program on your computer once. Then, every time the computer starts a grey controller will appear carrying a new message of character-building inspiration! It’s great - guys think it’s AWESOME and don’t even realize they are getting good, sound advice. It’s one of a kind! (patent pending),365 daily tid “Bitz” on life delivered in a unique, fun, and innovative way - via computers!,INNOVATIVE, ENTERTAINING, MEANINGFUL, AND EVERLASTING! A perfect gift for any young man.,How does TODAY’S generation get information? COMPUTERS! How does TODAY’S young men get important “Bitz” of character-building inspiration? DUDEBITZ! tm Also check out “ChickBitz” tm developed for all the young women in your life!
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A child’s first day at preschool marks a milestone in the child’s life and can be a very worrying time parents. However, with a little bit of forethought and some careful preparation this big day will go off just fine.

That first preschool day marks a milestone in your child’s life but for most parents it is a very worrying time as concern mounts over just how well the child will cope. With a little bit of thought and forward planning though you can do a great deal to ease your child (and yourself) through this big day.

The first thing you need to do is your homework. All preschools are not the same and not only are some better than others, but some will suit your child better than others. Take your time to draw up a shortlist of suitable preschools and then find out as much as you can about them.

Talk to friends and co-workers and see what they recommend. A recommendation from somebody you know and trust is an excellent starting point. But don’t stop there. Once you’ve narrowed your list down visit each of the preschools under consideration and talk to the teachers. Use this opportunity to ask probing questions and to really get a feel for the school.

Having decided on a suitable preschool the next task is to prepare your child for the big day.

For most children the problem with starting preschool lies simply in the fact that this is the first time that they have been away from you and from home. The best way to overcome this problem is to introduce your child slowly and gradually to being away from you and to being away from you in a strange environment. This is not as hard as it seems and can usually be accomplished quite easily with the help of other parents.

Start by spending time away from your child by arranging for a trusted friend to keep an eye on the child in your own home. Begin by leaving the child alone with the friend for just a few minutes and then gradually build this up to an hour and then several hours. During this time the trusted friend can also help considerably by not simply acting as a babysitter, but by gradually introducing some structured learning activity into the time spent with the child.

Once the child is happy being away from you for extended periods the next step is to move onto getting the child used to being in a strange environment.

Start by moving the child’s new learning activity into a neighbor’s house or somewhere unfamiliar and again build the child up slowly and gradually. Begin by caring for the child yourself, then together with a trusted friend and finally with the trusted friend alone, once more gradually increasing the time spent in this new environment.

One important element throughout this process is that the child should also spend an increasing amount of time in structured activity rather than simply in play. This structured activity should of course be fun and you’ll find it particularly helpful if you take your lead to some extent from the child and structure activities around things that the child enjoys doing. The object here is simply to introduce the child to the idea of concentrating his or her attention on a variety of different activities for a reasonable period of time and of completing one task before moving on to the next or being allowed a break to play or to have a drink or eat.

If circumstances allow, the ideal way to accomplish this preschool training is through a small group of parents in a similar situation which will not only allow your child to get used to being away from you but will also get him or her or used being with other adults, in a variety of different environments and also with other children.

Building your child up gradually over several weeks or months before preschool will mean that their big day is not quite so daunting. Of course, it will also go a long way towards helping you to overcome your own anxiety about the day too.
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Parenting4Dummies.com covers a wide range of topics and provides advice on child parenting, tips on only child parenting, parenting teenagers, step parenting, and divorced parenting.

It’s Potty TimeIt’s Potty Time Is Not For Parents. It was designed for children in order to take as much work off the parents as possible. Children should begin watching this video as soon as they watch TV. They will not potty train at this time, but they will learn the songs and sing them all the time. When their bodies are ready, usually between 18 & 24 months, they begin to understand the songs they have been singing and quickly translate the words into action. In no time at all they develop proper bathroom etiquette.

Director: George Spenton-Foster
VHS Tape:Color,NTSC
Company:Repnet(1991-02-08)
ISBN:6301982711
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BOB - Screen Time Manager - Manage Your TV TimeEfficient management of time is perhaps the largest human folly. Teach you children how to use their time wisely. BOB from Hopscotch Technology is a great way to help you do so. Television or computer use is an important part of our lives, but it should not be the only part. BOB is a simple hardware solution to the “too much TV” issue, bringing balance to electronic media use in our homes. BOB helps parents monitor and manage the time their children spend using in-home media. BOB is an easy to use, small device that sits next to a TV, video-game system or computer. The power cord from one of these devices plugs into the back of BOB and is locked in place. Then, BOB plugs into an electrical outlet. After set up, a process that takes about three minutes, the machine monitors the amount of time a child spends using that media device. Parents decide an acceptable amount of viewing time for each child per day or week. Specific time periods can be blocked entirely for studying, chores, family time, or sleeping. Each child in the house for up to 6 users has a four-digit PIN that they enter before they can turn on the attached device. BOB tracks the time used. A master pin allows a parent to turn on the connected device at any time. When a child’s preset viewing time expires, BOB shuts off the attached TV, video-game system or computer and won’t allow it to be turned on by that user for the remainder of the day or week. Time reporting for every user Time-period blocking (to prevent media use at certain times of the day) BOB works with all TVs (including large screens), gaming stations, and computers Big, easy to use, illuminated keypad for the entire family - even in the dark! Tamper proof - Durable Hopscotch Technology 1-year warranty

Electronics:Simple 3-minute set up,6 unique user accounts,Safe for all electronics,Kid-safe and tamperproof,Reduces screentime=better health & better grades
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Melissa and Doug Cutting Food BoxThis super-sized set enables kids to cut their food just like mom or dad. It’s perfect for encouraging hand-eye coordination. This set includes more than 25 pieces, including a child-safe knife and cutting board, along with eight healthy choice selections for kids to prepare their own meals. Knives glide easily through each item, making a realistic crunching sound that kids love. Once cut apart, kids will enjoy reattaching the disassembled pieces and starting all over. A handy wooden crate is included for easy storage.

Toy:Lets kids cook on their own,Realistic cutting sounds,29 pieces,Recommended Age Range 3 Years and up
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Parenting a child with bipolar disorder presents its own unique challenges. Family and friends may have attributed your child?s difficult behavior to stubbornness or other personality flaws. They may disagree with your parenting skills, however it is important to recognize and accept bipolar disorder for what it is ? just another medical condition. If your child had epilepsy, no one would blame you or your child right?

Educating yourself about bipolar disorder is important when your child is diagnosed with this disorder. You will need all that knowledge you can absorb in order to crop with what is laying ahead of you. Online support groups can provide a wealth of information. Offline support groups will also give you the opportunity to speak to other parents dealing with the same issues.

It is important to take good care of yourself when parenting a bipolar child. Eating healthy, getting proper rest, and doing things for yourself can help you cope with the stress of the demands of parenting a child with special needs. On top of that, eating a balanced diet could also help regulate your child?s mood and gives the nutrition required by a growing child.

Exercise can help your child burn off excess energy. This is especially beneficial if you recognize the signs of an impending mania or rage. Keeping a regular schedule, especially for sleep, can also help you manage bipolar symptoms.

Feel free to ask the doctor any questions you may have. You are your child?s advocate. You should understand the disorder and the symptoms that your child is experiencing. The communication with your child?s doctor is a two-way street. Who better than you can tell the doctor whether or not the treatment is working? Some parents find it helpful to keep a log or calendar to note your child?s symptoms. If you feel like your child?s doctor does not understand the severity of your child?s episodes, you might want to videotape the rage episodes.

Therapy is an essential tool when learning how to manage bipolar disorder. Therapy teaches your child how to recognize warning signs of the illness and cope with their emotions. Family therapy can be helpful to the bipolar child and the whole family as each individual must learn about the disorder. Bipolar disorder inevitably affects everyone in the family.

It is important that you get your bipolar child the treatment that they need. The sooner bipolar disorder is treated, the better. If left untreated, it can only get worse. A majority of adolescents with untreated bipolar disorder end up abusing alcohol or drugs. Bipolar disorder is highly treatable. Finally, there is no reason to believe that your child will not be able to go on to lead a productive life.

Moses Wright is the founder of Bipolar Disorder. He provides more useful information on; What Is Bipolar Disorder and Life Of Bipolar Manic Depressive Disorder on his website. Webmasters are welcome to reprint this article if you keep the content and live link intact.

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Single parenting has seemingly become an acceptable norm which is unfortunate. Single parenting has seemingly become an acceptable norm which is unfortunate.

According to the US Census Bureau, there were over 20 million single parents in the United States in the year 2000. That’s a staggering statistic, certainly the worldwide number of people who are challenged with single parenting is exponentially higher.

When making a divorce decision and you have children, its natural to wonder about the challenges of single parenting and how it will affect your children. You may have seen other people struggle with single parenting or thought about the strain single parenting would seemingly put on you and your children.

Single Parenting Is Easier If You Know Yourself.

When deciding about getting a divorce and thinking about how single parenting figures in, make sure that you know yourself. Ask yourself if you’re really ready to get divorced and if you can overcome the fear or challenge of single parenting. Don’t be hasty with your decision, who knows? Maybe your marriage can be saved! Then again, maybe not.

Know yourself.know whether or not you’re thinking of single parenting solely to take something away from your spouse.clearly a selfish and useless reason to be a single parent. Know whether or not you can adequately be a single parent based on your inner strength, work ethic, tendencies towards being overly busy, etc.

Single parenting is tough, what you may be able to take for granted as a married person will be gone if you’re thinking of trying single parenting. Chances are if you’re thinking of trying single parenting, you won’t have much time at all for yourself.in essence, your ’self’ will be all about your children. Know whether you’re really ready for this.after all your children deserve the best care possible!

Single Parenting Is Easier If You Know Your Children.

Yes, you have to really know your children.you have to know how they’ll respond to a plethora of changes if you’re going to try single parenting. How will they respond to not seeing your spouse - Mom or Dad - as often? How will your children react to having to be dropped off at your ex-spouses house for visitation? How will the children feel about potentially not enjoying the same luxuries or attention that they may have had previously? Of course, there’s more questions to ask to fit your particular situation.keep your children’s best interest at heart.

You absolutely must know your children in order to be comfortable about trying single parenting. Granted, it won’t be easy and there will be rocky points in the process, but if you know your children well enough single parenting can be productive assuming your marriage cannot be saved. In any event, your children most likely will have to sacrifice if you’re going to try single parenting.

Single Parenting Will Be Easier If You Review Your Finances And Plan Accordingly.

Whether the concept is shallow or not is irrelevant. Finances (or lack thereof) figure in to your decision to venture into single parenting. Take a hard look at what your finances will allow for if you’re thinking of becoming a single parent. You must not let emotion completely rule your decision to try single parenting. In order to do what’s best for you and your children, you need to assess just how you’ll make ends meet and how you’ll provide for them.and yourself!

Be sensible and take a good amount of time to figure out how you’ll live, where the money will come from, how your own freedoms will be compromised, and more importantly, how your children’s freedoms will be affected!

If you have a well laid out plan with regards to finance before you start single parenting, you will be mu
ch better off.

Single parenting is hard and your children will be affected no matter how well off you are in your life with regards to finance and support mechanisms. But, unfortunately, single parenting can be a necessary thing to do in some instances. Just do right by your children and yourself and think about the future and how you can build your life correctly before you venture into single parenting.

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Authors David and Naomi Brisco have written a new book titled 52 ELF* Activities to Make You the Best Grandparent - *Easy, Low-cost, and Fun once-a-week activities and ideas to connect you with your grandkids. This article includes activities from their new book, including some Valentines Day treats to make with (or for) the grandkids.

David believes that we are all interested in creative ways to do things ?faster, easier, and cheaper,? which was the spark for the 52 ELF series. Naomi is a portrait artist and the most creative person you will ever know. David and Naomi hope to write a whole slew of 52 ELF books and welcome your suggestions, comments, and input for new ideas, columns, and titles. You can find their website at www.52elf.com.

52 ELF has a simple premise? grandparenting is fun, whether it is by phone, by mail, or in person. You don?t have to spend a lot of money or do complicated or difficult things to enjoy your grandkids, just spending time together is a joy. David and Naomi would love to hear your suggestions for future columns, including ideas for connecting with teenage grandkids. The most important thing is to realize that your grandkids like you, love you, and want to connect with you. What more could you ask for?

ELF LONG DISTANCE ART PROJECT

Who: Younger grandkids Time: 10 minutes Cost: $1.00

Kids love to draw, they love to use their imaginations, and they love to be silly. Start a line drawing with just a few strokes. Monsters are a favorite, so draw just part of the head, with big teeth. Include a couple of written lines to start the story such as ?there was a big eyed monster, and he lived in a lake near the town.?

Then mail the picture and story to your grandchild and ask him or her to add to the story and the drawing, and to mail it back to you. You can keep the story going for several cycles, and you will both be surprised what comes out. This activity is good for children?s imaginations and collaboration skills. It can also be done in person at your home if you live nearby.

Who: Mature grandkids and teens Time: 15 minutes Cost: $1.00 - $2.00

Send a copy of a piece of art to an older grandchild (this is especially provocative if you happen to like modern art). Include a note telling a little bit about the artist and why you like the piece. Ask them what they see in the picture, or to send you a copy of a piece that they like along with an explanation of what they see in it and why they like it. Don?t be surprised if you get something slightly shocking, they may be trying to get a reaction, but so what? You have started a dialogue.

Be very calm and objective. Return your thoughts and comments along with a new picture. This activity might help a teenager open up to art, and it could also help develop an exchange of feelings and thoughts that your teenage grandchild cannot express in everyday circumstances. Since art is subjective, you can validate the feelings of your grandchild without agreeing with their analysis.

Great Truths About Life That Children Have Learned

* No matter how hard you try, you can?t baptize a cat. Kim, age 8
* When your mom is mad at your dad, don?t let her brush your hair. Tammy, age 9
* If your sister hits you, don?t hit back. They always catch the second person. Al, age 11

ELF VALENTINES DAY TREATS

Who: Younger grandkids Time: 20 min. prep Cost: $ 6

In the Kitchen: HEART TREATS

? cup butter

4 cups miniature marshmallows*

5 cups Kellogg?s? Rice Krispies?

food coloring

tube of decorating icing with fine tip

heart-shaped cookie cutter*

Melt butter in large saucepan over low heat. Add marshmallows and stir until completely melted. Stirring constantly, cook 3 minutes longer over low heat. Stir in a few drops of red food coloring for pink hearts. Remove from heat. Add cereal and stir until well-coated. Usin
g a buttered or silicone spatula or waxed paper, press the mixture into (9″x13″x2″) pan that has been coated with cooking spray or greased with butter. Allow mixture to cool slightly. Cut into hearts using heart-shaped cutter*. Use icing to decorate and write love messages, e.g. HUGS, XOXO, MOM, I♥U.

Yield: 10-12 servings. (Makes 12 ? 14 heart treats.) Supervise children so no one gets burned. These are best when served the same day as they are made.

*Note: Marshmallows should be fresh and soft for best results. You may substitute a (10-oz.) package of regular-sized marshmallows (about 40), OR 1 (7-oz.) jar of marshmallow cr?me.

*If you don?t have a heart-shaped cutter, or if you want to have extras for more kids to use, you can easily make one from a tuna can: Cut both ends from can. File down any poking remnant from the lids to assure safety. Scrub can well with hot soapy water. Rinse and dry thoroughly. Mold can into heart shape by pressing in on each edge opposite the seam. This can also be used to cut heart-shaped gelatin, or heart biscuits, or as a mold for heart eggs or pancakes?.

Actually, these treats can be adapted for any holiday. Just change the food coloring and the cookie cutter shape and decorations!

Who: Older grandkids / teens Time: 25 min prep. Cost: $ 6

In the Kitchen: SUPER KISSES

1 cup brown sugar, packed

1 cup light Karo? corn syrup

Pam? / cooking spray

? cup cocoa

1 ? cups peanut butter

? teaspoon vanilla extract, optional

6 cups Kellogg?s? Cocoa Krispies? cereal

6 oz. semi-sweet chocolate chips or chocolate candy melts, optional

4 funnels

quart jars?to hold funnels

Aluminum foil

1 yard of 1″ ribbon

permanent marker

Prepare funnel ?molds?: wash and dry thoroughly. Place in quart jars to hold stable. Spray inside funnels with cooking spray.

In saucepan, bring syrup, cocoa and sugar to a boil. Remove from heat and add vanilla and peanut butter. Mix well, and add Cocoa Krispies?. Stir until well-coated and pack tightly into prepared funnels, leveling off the top. Allow to cool.

Meanwhile, section off enough ribbon for each kiss and cut. With a marker, write a secret love-note on left-hand side; then write: SUPER KISS on the right-hand side.
Unmold ?super kisses?.

If desired, melt chocolate in microwave or in double boiler over warm water on the stove. Drizzle or spread melted chocolate over ?super kisses?. Refrigerate until chocolate hardens.
Place each kiss with wide part in the center of a square of aluminum foil and wrap tightly, tucking in ribbon at the top?allowing the SUPER KISS tail to stream out the top.
Makes 4 Super-sized chocolate ?Kisses?. May vary depending on sizes of funnels.

Stray Thoughts

* The reason that grandparents and grandchildren get along so well is that they have a common enemy!
* Grandmas are not fading and shrinking, they are merely getting more concentrated.
* When grandparents enter the door, discipline flies out the window. (Ogden Nash)

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Discover your parenting style. Are you a ‘Too-Busy Mom’ or a ‘Best Friend Mom’? Find out if your parenting style works for you and your child, and remember that each child is different.
It’s no surprise that we inherit our parenting ideas and abilities from our own parents and caregivers. Even if you have decided to do “the opposite” of what your parents did, it still originates from what they did or did not do. Because our parenting styles are so ingrained in us, we rarely give it much thought, unless there is real stress in the family.

Before you go calling the Supernanny, take a few moments to discover your parenting style(s), and how they may or may not be the best approach for your kids. (Remember, you may have more than one style, depending on the situation.)

1. The Too-Busy Mom. The Too-Busy Mom is always on the go, rushing from work to the gym, to the grocery store, to baseball practice, to the dentist and to social events. Her schedule ? and consequently her kids’ schedule ? is jam packed with obligations and leaves little room for spontaneous fun or relaxation.

While the Too-Busy Mom is fantastic at exposing her kids to new experiences through classes, team participation and other activities, she may not make time to really connect with her family in simple ways.

2. The Overprotective Mom. The Overprotective Mom’s main focus is on her child’s physical, mental, spiritual, and sometimes social well-being. She is concerned about the possible negative outcomes of every situation; her “child proofing” goes way beyond infancy.

An Overprotective Mom is a champion for her kid’s health and safety, and is informed about the possible dangers her kids face in the real world. On the other hand, she may be preventing her children from experiencing life, teaching them to “play it safe” when life requires us to take a risk now and then.

3. The Best Friend. The Best Friend Mom has a hard time saying “no” to her kids. Either because she believes in their autonomy or because she wants to avoid confrontation, the Best Friend Mom prefers not to limit her children and avoids punishment at all costs.

While a Best Friend Mom is often able to create a haven at home, where children feel safe to be who they are and try new things, the lack of boundaries and consequences can actually stress children out and set them up for a lifetime of irresponsible behavior.

4. The Dictator. The Dictator Mom has the first and final say about anything and everything, and is never questioned or challenged. She knows what is best for her family, and will not hear an argument to the contrary.

While a Dictator Mom is confident in her parenting ability, values, and general decision making, her parenting style may make her children feel as though they do not have a voice in their own home.

5. The Overachiever. The Overachiever Mom runs her family like a business, complete with to-do lists, calendars, and detailed instructions for basic activities. Her goal is success for all members of her family, and she gives up a lot to make it happen.

The Overachiever Mom is organized, and helps to keep her family running smoothly. However, her goals for the children may not be in line with their own aspirations, and so her children may feel stuck on her path, or concerned they will let her down if they choose another.

There are positives and negatives about each parenting style, and there are times when we have to be the authority, have an eye on our kid’s futures, be the confidante, protect them from danger, and schedule activities for them.

But what we really need to recognize is how our parenting style may be affecting each of our children. What might work for one child may not be effective for another. One child may thrive under your style, while another may react negatively to what you bring as a parent.

No matter what your parenting style is, just being aware of it will help you to be a better parent.
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At many stages in parenting there are classes available. In some cases they are pretty much mandatory, while others completely voluntary. The key point is that you may find more information on doing the most important thing in life, raising the next generation to better than what you have so they might even take their next generation to greater levels yet. In a nutshell, it?s all about passing it on with improvements.

Whether you are in the childcare field, a first time parent, an elder child in a large family, grandparent, or others that are moving in the direction to help the future, you should indeed consider parenting classes that can give you more knowledge to have the best positive impact on the future.

In the early days before birth there are often pre-natal classes on birthing. In some places they are mandatory for both parents to be in the delivery room when your baby sees his or her first light of day. While many fail to consider it, truthfully this also brings a good start for both of you to be involved with your newborn baby from the first possible moment. It?s also about sharing responsibilities even before they are born.

There is nothing wrong with looking outside for some knowledge that can assist to do what you are already trying your best to do with improvements. Don?t look to change everything you know, as you will likely be discouraged early on if you try this? Look to understand what you learn, and then see where it applies or doesn?t.

When looking for parenting classes, you will often find a lot of choices ranging from local family services, faith based charities, educational sources, and more? Online you have found our site which also offers additional parenting information as well as more leads to classes you may be able to improve your own efforts with.

With all the choices you are bound to find a number of parenting classes that answer questions that have come to you over time. Take your time in choosing, and then go for those that look like they may help. As you go along you will find some didn?t add up to what they claimed, and likely others will prove better than their claims.

With the internet comes a lot of learning opportunity from the comforts of your home. You will undoubtedly find many parenting classes here as well. It?s the wave of the future in all learning. Don?t forget to have a look at classes on protecting your children online.

It all comes back to the most important thing in anyone?s adult life. That?s giving your children the best chances of success throughout their life, and the hope that they will do the same for their children. Whatever you can do to improve on that is worth its price in gold.

While child-birthing and initial care suggestions are good, there is much more involved over the years raising your children. Whether it is helping your children to eat better, learn more towards better grades, or see how you have to protect them, you can find some great input from the right parenting classes.

Everything you do has impact on your children?s lives. It?s hard to see most of the results immediately, though in the end you will. Whatever you can do now to see that end better, is well worth it. Parenting classes can definitely give you more focused input that improves the final results years later.

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What to Expect When You’re Expecting: 4th EditionAnnouncing a brand new, cover-to-cover revision of America’s pregnancy bible. What to Expect When You’re Expecting is a perennial New York Times bestseller and one of USA Today’s 25 most influential books of the past 25 years. It’s read by more than 90% of pregnant women who read a pregnancy book–the most iconic, must-have book for parents-to-be, with over 14.5 million copies in print.

Now comes the Fourth Edition, a new book for a new generation of expectant moms–featuring a new look, a fresh perspective, and a friendlier-than-ever voice. It’s filled with the most up-to-date information reflecting not only what’s new in pregnancy, but what’s relevant to pregnant women. Heidi Murkoff has rewritten every section of the book, answering dozens of new questions and including loads of new asked-for material, such as a detailed week-by-week fetal development section in each of the monthly chapters, an expanded chapter on pre-conception, and a brand new one on carrying multiples. More comprehensive, reassuring, and empathetic than ever, the Fourth Edition incorporates the most recent developments in obstetrics and addresses the most current lifestyle trends (from tattooing and belly piercing to Botox and aromatherapy). There’s more than ever on pregnancy matters practical (including an expanded section on workplace concerns), physical (with more symptoms, more solutions), emotional (more advice on riding the mood roller coaster), nutritional (from low-carb to vegan, from junk fooddependent to caffeine-addicted), and sexual (what’s hot and what’s not in pregnant lovemaking), as well as much more support for that very important partner in parenting, the dad-to-be.

Overflowing with tips, helpful hints, and humor (a pregnant woman’s best friend), this new edition is more accessible and easier to use than ever before. It’s everything parents-to-be have come to expect from What to Expect. only better.

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What to Expect started with information–or, actually, lack of information. In fact, when I found out I was expecting for the first time–I didn’t have the slightest idea of what to expect. And back then, it wasn’t as easy to find out what to expect as you’d think. I created What to Expect When You’re Expecting because I couldn’t find the answers to my questions or the reassurance for my worries that I was searching for in the pregnancy books I read (and believe me, I read plenty). I was a mom on a mission–a mission to help other moms and dads worry less and enjoy their pregnancies (and their babies, and their toddlers) more. And I’ve been on that mission ever since.

So what sent me back to recreate What to Expect–for a fourth time? Today, there’s definitely no lack of information on pregnancy. In fact there’s more information than ever before (a quick online search of pregnancy or a glance at pages and pages of pregnancy and parenting options right here on Amazon will clue you in on that). But often what’s still hard to find is the right kind of information. Information that’s accurate yet empathetic, reassuring yet realistic–that empowers you, but doesn’t overwhelm or confuse you, that guides you but doesn’t dictate to you. And it’s not just about the right information, it’s about information that’s presented in the way that’s most helpful–easy to access, easy to digest, easy to use. It’s about information that makes your pregnant life less stressful–more enjoyable, and, well, easier.

The fourth edition is a new What To Expect for a new generation of readers–you!–and I’m excited to say it’s the best What To Expect yet. It’s packed with all new information, of course (since things tend to change quickly in the baby-making and baby-delivering business–something you’re probably all too aware of already if you’ve made more than one trip to the birthing room). But it doesn’t only take into account what’s new in obstetrics and what’s new in pregnancy; it takes into account what’s relevant to pregnant women now. Lifestyle. Working. Eating on the run. Juggling the pregnant life with real life. Keeping up with relationships. Birthing options that are family friendly and pregnancy care that incorporates the best that complimentary and alternative medicine has to offer. Managing multiples (which more and more moms are carrying). Sorting out the information from the misinformation–the reality from the hype, fact from Internet legend.

The fourth edition also takes into account how you likely use books these days, so the format is even more accessible than ever. More geared to in-the-moment, find-it-in-a-flash reading.

Most important of all, the fourth edition celebrates pregnancy. I have a passion for pregnancy, and always have. I love moms, I love dads, and I love babies. But everything about this fourth edition from the happy, excited mom-to-be on the cover, proudly caressing her beautiful belly and its even more beautiful contents, to the adorable week-by-week description of the making of your baby, to the positive (yet realistic), mom-to-mom tone throughout–this fourth edition is not just an explanation of those 9 amazing (though often bewildering) months you have ahead of you. It’s a celebration of them.

What to Expect When You’re Expecting fourth edition is everything moms and dads have come to expect from What to Expect. only better. And I can’t wait to start sharing it with you.

I guess you can say–I’m a proud mama all over again.

–Heidi Murkoff

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Parenting can be one of life?s greatest pleasures, as
well as one of its greatest challenges. Like every
human relationship the parent-child relationship
embraces two distinct points of view. Teenagers,
however articulate they may be in other areas, can
be notoriously inarticulate when it comes to putting
forth their own perspectives, needs and purposes to
their parents. During this time of dramatic and
perplexing change, teenagers often have difficulty
understanding their own inner states and behaviours.
At the same time, parents frequently share the
confusion and turmoil of teenagers. You may well
misread or misunderstand your teenager?s
communications. Frequently you may find yourself at
a complete loss in terms of what your teenager is
communicating and how you are to respond.

So get ready to make a shift in your parenting role.
Your role of parent as manger is coming to a close
and your new role of parent as coach is emerging. In
your new role you take on a new way of ?being?.
After all, we are human beings not human doings! It
is time to stop doing things the old way and become
the parent coach. A coach is not a cheerleader, but
one who helps an individual explore his or her
potential and supports them in moving onto bigger
and better things. A parent coach does not try to
control their teenager, instead they learn to really
listen to them, support their interest and show we
appreciate their uniqueness. As a parent coach you
can teach your teenager that they have a choice in
the design of their life. You can show them how to
clarify their values, how to ?choose to choose? and
how to take responsibility for their actions.

Carl Jung once said ?Consciousness is not achieved
without pain.? Raising a teenager provides numerous
opportunities for leaps of consciousness. And this is
difficult, but worth remembering, when your
teenager?s room is empty at 2.00am., when the
phone isn?t ringing, when the deputy principal is
asking for a meeting, when you are buying a dress
for the formal, when you are not buying a dress for
the formal, after you have found an empty beer can
in the car. When all is said and done, they need and
want you as allies, not enemies, during this confusing
and vital phase of life.

Tracy Tresidder M.Ed is a professional parent and teen coach.

Parents - learn how to assist your children to build lives of confidence, courage and compassion. Discover the seven simple steps to create a mutually loving and respectful relationship with your teenager.

Go to http://www.coaching4teenagers.com.au to see the programs that are available now.

Tracy is also the lead instructor for the Academy for Family Coach Training in Australasia where you can train to become a certified parent and teen coach. The 10 month Advanced Coaching Course, held in Australia on an annual basis, is the only ICF accredited Parent and Teen Coach Training Course in the world to offer CCE certification. Visit the website for more course details.http://www.familycoachtraining.com/advcoaching.html

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